If you are on oxygen therapy, have you notified your power company? Often when the power goes out due to a storm it’s a minor inconvenience. For most of us, all we need is a few candles to see and board game or a book to pass the time. But when you’re caring for aging parents, a power outage can have serious consequences, especially if the situation escalates past a few … [Read more...]
For Persons Living With Dementia, Dog Therapy Is A Gift
This is Murphy, a therapy dog, and Anne, a person living with dementia.* As soon as Murphy was carefully positioned in her lap, Anne began gently petting her. Then she began to sing and rock her. Tears welled up in the eyes of Anne’s caregiver and mine. I had the privilege of participating in a Pet Therapy Community Class at The Alzheimer’s Foundation of America (AFA). … [Read more...]
How Much Does This Casket Cost?
Pre-planning allows you to be a wise consumer. “It doesn’t cost you anything to have the pre-planning discussion with a funeral home. I want to stress that you are not obligated to purchase the arrangements you discuss. You can even talk about pre-funding your funeral, but you don’t have to say yes to all the dollars discussed.” Funeral Director Christine Cuoco of Ruby … [Read more...]
I Wish People Didn’t Fear Discussing Funeral and Burial Arrangements
An open conversation takes the burden off loved ones. Most people pre-plan their burial. They buy the plot or crypt, but never take the next step of pre-planning their funeral arrangements. - Funeral Director Christine Cuoco of Ruby Memorial Christine’s comment resonates with me because that is our family story. My parents had pre-purchased a spot in a local mausoleum but … [Read more...]
I Want To Die With Dignity And Grace
The way I lived my life. I recently came across my dad’s Five Wishes Advance Directive. He used this legal document to plan and ensure his end-of-life wishes were known in the event he was unable to communicate. The person he’d named as first was himself. My sister-in-law followed, and I was third. My father didn’t shy away from tough conversations or hard decisions. He … [Read more...]