We don’t give our elders enough credit. Gramps was mom’s dad. An active, debonair ladies’ man, who buried two wives and a girlfriend during his 91 years. And by example, he taught me some important life lessons. Let me tell you a story about my grandfather that makes me smile and sums him up well. The last years of his life he lived in cooperative affordable housing near … [Read more...]
A Dementia Caregivers’ Journey is Long. What if YOU need help from 911?
Ingrid and Pete. I’ve known Ingrid for three years. We met through the United Way of Northern NJ Caregiver Coalition. Initially I knew Ingrid as caregiver to her beloved husband, a person living with dementia. Over the years, I’ve gotten to know Ingrid – a smart, funny, compassionate woman who is a terrific poet and doesn’t suffer fools gladly. Despite caring for her … [Read more...]
Seniors Do You Want to Stay In Your Home? A Simple Improvement Will Help.
For safety, look to more than just the bathroom. I speak at senior centers, churches, and synagogues about what it takes to “age-in-place.” You know, the ability to live out your life at home, in familiar and comfortable surroundings? I use mom as an example, touching on what we did to make it work financially, what we learned in hiring caregiver help, and what we modified and … [Read more...]
What I’ve learned about quality of life when you’re at the end of life, from Buddy, Coal, and Josh.
And yes, these are my dogs. Updated 10_5_20 with a new lesson. I grew up with dogs, so rescuing and bringing them into my home is a no brainer. Because they are family members, yearly physicals, vaccinations, and good quality food is part of the deal. And when illness occurs, you do everything in your power to make them well and hold onto them. Or do you? The first dog I … [Read more...]
Don’t let your senior self-isolate due to incontinence.
Three caregiver tips and tricks. #AD This is sponsored content written by me in partnership with Depend® brand. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Lookout for the special offer from Depend brand at the end of this post. Caregiving for a spouse or aging parent is a journey of love. Nothing prepares us for its challenges or the level of intimacy it can require, like … [Read more...]